It’s a new year! It’s a time for new beginnings, releasing old habits and generally, shaking off the dust. And if you live in my house, there is plenty of that because the way my schedule is set up, there is very little time for “frivolous” chores like dusting. Something like cleaning a toilet, well, that needs to get done but dust, well, I know that is pretty gross too. I could make a bunch of excuses as to why I can’t get everything done but just envision yourself working and parenting without 2 people. As in, all on your own. I love when friends or people in general complain about how hard it is to be a parent and I see their husband at the ball field, at the grocery store and let’s say, lending 2 additional hands to the parenting role. I am like a human octopus….truly, all hands on deck.
Now that I think of it, since dust is made up of sloughed-off skin cells (among other vile things like mites and other dead insect parts), I should dust and I could create an assistant to help me multi-task. My dust assistant could go grocery shopping, while I assist with homework. That would be a cost-effective way to secure some help.
And I am not complaining. I am generally happy and I make time every day, no matter what the weather is, to get out for a walk in nature. The things l don’t like to do – cooking, laundry and scrubbing floors, I would have to do with or without children. To me, the parenting stuff is easy – challenging, at times, and time consuming for sure but immensely enjoyable. The daily chore stuff…not so much.
Truth be told, when I looked out my slider today while drinking a coffee, I realized the 5 pumpkins I bought for the fall were rotting beside the “Welcome to the pumpkin patch” placard. It should say, “Welcome to my world – procrastination sprinkled with exhaustion”.
No dust here. Nothing but blue skies.
